Questions: I have a male best friend and he's closer to me than my own brother. All my exes have been jealous and want me to choose between them and him. I end up losing them as I can't cut him out of my life. Why can't I find someone to understand me?Answer: Do you understand you? There's no way he could affect your relationships unless you allow him more intimacy than anyone else. Do you drop his name into conversations with men who don't yet know him? Are you using him as an anchor to stop you soaring too high when you're risking a fall? Why does a new boyfriend need to know about your friend before the relationship's strong enough to include him as friend to you both? Be careful not to use your male friend as a weapon to test the passions of new boyfriends. Next time you have a serious boyfriend, try going out in a group. Or are you actually in love with your friend? Understand yourself first and then understanding of others will follow.
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